is mostly based on respecting the rules of the sites/communities she's in, and have fun.
She doesn't lock. Anything. Nor LJ nor Twitter nor her fanfictions, unless the rules on the communities she posts in says so. Ok, she locks her Twitter account, sometimes, but never for more than a week or so and only when she's tired of people adding her indiscriminately.
She tries to answer all the comments but she not always manages to. She reviews what she reads, but if she doesn't don't ask her to -- there's a reason if she didn't.
She talks only about what she likes or dislikes and only when she feels like to. Don't like what you read? Don't friend her. Also because she floods. A lot. Especially on Twitter. Don't follow her if you don't know if you can handle this.